feat: disable livenessProbe timeout enforcement

[jackfrancis]

Reason for Change:

This PR addes the ExecProbeTimeout=false feature gate to 1.20 and later Kubernetes, to prevent livenessProbe timeout enforcement, which defaults to 1 second, from being introduced to an upgrade Kubernetes cluster suddenly.

Issue Fixed:

Credit Where Due:

Does this change contain code from or inspired by another project?

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• Yes

If "Yes," did you notify that project's maintainers and provide attribution?

• No
• Yes

Requirements:

• uses conventional commit messages
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• tested upgrade from previous version

Notes:

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Codecov Report

Merging #4085 (5877dc4) into master (6d292f1) will increase coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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+ Hits        15058    15059    +1     
  Misses       4545     4545           
  Partials      973      973           

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
pkg/api/defaults-kubelet.go	96.59% <100.00%> (+0.01%)	⬆️

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[mboersma]

/lgtm

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