minor: make Parquet CLI input args consistent

[XinyuZeng]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #3785.

Rationale for this change

What changes are included in this PR?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[tustvold]

What do you think of unifying in the opposite direction, i.e. making the other tools take positional arguments?

[XinyuZeng]

Positional arguments may not be well suited for tools like parquet-fromcsv and parquet-rewrite, which have too many arguments (and many file names). But for the tools that only require one file to read, I think getting rid of "-f" makes it handier. For those tools, we can make filename positional and leave other options there.

e.g.

parquet-read [OPTIONS] <FILE_NAME>

[tustvold]

I think it is fine for the more complex tools to have a different argument pattern from those that take a single input file

[tustvold]

I think the pyspark integration test needs to be updated

[tustvold]

Thank you 👍

[ursabot]

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