fix: use maximum possible data fee for 4844 balance checks

[Rjected]

ref paradigmxyz/reth#6077

The balance checks shown in EIP-4844 use the maximum possible blob fee:

        # modify the check for sufficient balance
        max_total_fee = tx.gas * tx.max_fee_per_gas
        if get_tx_type(tx) == BLOB_TX_TYPE:
            max_total_fee += get_total_blob_gas(tx) * tx.max_fee_per_blob_gas
        assert signer(tx).balance >= max_total_fee

This implements what is written in the spec, introducing a new method calc_max_data_fee to calculate get_total_blob_gas(tx) * tx.max_fee_per_blob_gas

[rakita]

lgtm, we should backport this to reth_freeze branch