Update maven config and tests to allow Java 8, 11 and 17 builds

[dotasek]

• Updates several dependency versions.
• Conditionally sets up surefire tests with an optional argument that allows Java 8 surefire tests to run without encountering garbage collection errors.
• Updates the JAVA_HOME resolution for Mac in UtilityTests to use the resolved path instead of a string, which was failing on different Mac setups due to inconsistencies in using a trailing forward slash for the value.

[dotasek]

Work in progress; will be adding Azure pipeline targeting this branch to test.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #653 (86cd0a2) into master (f4e9c21) will increase coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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  Coverage   10.03%   10.03%           
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  Files        1728     1728           
  Lines      538009   538009           
  Branches   159335   159340    +5     
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+ Hits        53966    53968    +2     
  Misses     464364   464364           
+ Partials    19679    19677    -2     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...r/utilities/npm/FilesystemPackageCacheManager.java	42.61% <ø> (ø)
.../java/org/hl7/fhir/r5/model/ElementDefinition.java	15.64% <0.00%> (-0.04%)	⬇️
...l7/fhir/validation/instance/InstanceValidator.java	56.57% <0.00%> (+0.08%)	⬆️
...a/org/hl7/fhir/r5/utils/client/network/Client.java	62.16% <0.00%> (+1.35%)	⬆️

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[dotasek]

No longer Work in Progress; ready for review.

[markiantorno]

Good stuff.