executor: add CTEProducer that shared by all CTEExec (#44643)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #44643

Also cherry pick #38214 to make unittest ok(TestCTEWithLimit)

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #44649

Problem Summary: As issue comment said: #44649 (comment)

What is changed and how it works?

Before: For different CTE references(a.k.a. CTEExec) that use one CTE definition. They will only have one PhysicalPlan of the CTE defition. But we will build CTE definition multiple time for each CTE references.

After: Add CTEProducer struct, it corresponsds to CTE defition and will only build once. These different CTEExec will read from the same CTEProducer.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2023-07-06 05:51:38.237390914 +0000 UTC m=+777.118866864: ☑️ agreed by XuHuaiyu.
• 2023-07-06 06:16:22.361796122 +0000 UTC m=+2261.243272070: ☑️ agreed by wshwsh12.

[guo-shaoge]

Blocked by #43645

[hawkingrei]

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/run-mysql-test