executor: Optimize slow log parsing's splitByColon function (#54630)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #54630

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #54538

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Replace regexp matching with simple string comparison operations. Besides, previously, ":=" inside "{}" are not handled correctly, fix it in this PR also.
In local mannual test, performance will improve about 10x, from 24s to 2.2s for the following sql:
SELECT Digest, Query, Conn_ID, (UNIX_TIMESTAMP(Time) + 0E0) AS timestamp, Query_time, Mem_max, Process_keys FROM `INFORMATION_SCHEMA`.`CLUSTER_SLOW_QUERY` WHERE Time BETWEEN FROM_UNIXTIME(1720471890) AND FROM_UNIXTIME(1720515091) ORDER BY Query_time DESC LIMIT 100;

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[yibin87]

/retest

[windtalker]

LGTM

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Timeline:

• 2024-09-03 06:55:19.760382561 +0000 UTC m=+341044.278435485: ☑️ agreed by windtalker.
• 2024-09-03 08:04:18.324828516 +0000 UTC m=+345182.842881441: ☑️ agreed by guo-shaoge.