mounter(ticdc): fix extend column info order to match the columns info (#8960)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #8960

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #8958

What is changed and how it works?

mounter's datum2Column method, reorder columns and columnInfos by the corresponding offset.

model.RowChangedEvent has a field named ColInfos, it's the extended column infos, it's not reordered by the datum2Columns method, which makes columns and columnInfo has the same column ID order, but column and ColInfos does not.

• ColInfos should also be reordered by the datum2Columns` method, to make it has the same column ID order as the columns.

For further refinement, Each model.Column should have field ID, FieldType, IsPKHandle, so that no need to keep the ColInfo at each event.

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Questions

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Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

Fix columns and extended column information does not have the same order.

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