Bump packages (#5061)

* Remove superfluous activation events

* Bump engine and Node.js

Since the shell integration script moved, our minimum supported VS Code
version is now 1.94. Also, we don't have to support ADS any more.

This also means Electron bumps to 30.x which brings Node.js to 20.x

* Bump Node.js packages

* Bump VS Code and Node types

docs/development.md

@@ -25,10 +25,7 @@
 ## Tracking Upstream Dependencies
 
 As a VS Code extension, we first rely on the `engine` field of `package.json` to
-state the lowest version of VS Code we support. This extension in particular
-must not update past what Azure Data Studio supports, which can be found in the
-[`vscodeVersion`][] field of their `product.json` file. We periodically check
-that for updates, and when available update our own.
+state the lowest version of VS Code we support.
 
 When our `engine` field is updated the development dependency `@types/vscode`
 must be updated to match. Note that it uses `~` (not `^`) so as to accept new
@@ -40,8 +37,8 @@ lets us finally update our `@types/node` development dependency to match, our
 developer machines if necessary, and the CI and OneBranch pipeline tasks.
 
 [`vscodeVersion`]: https://github.com/microsoft/azuredatastudio/blob/4970733324ef8254b7c22a5dc55af7f8a1dea93f/product.json#L50
-[`electron`]: https://github.com/microsoft/vscode/blob/8b617bd08fd9e3fc94d14adb8d358b56e3f72314/package.json#L153
-[Electron]: https://www.electronjs.org/blog/electron-25-0
+[`electron`]: https://github.com/microsoft/vscode/blob/384ff7382de624fb94dbaf6da11977bba1ecd427/package.json#L159
+[Electron]: https://www.electronjs.org/blog/electron-30-0
 [Node.js]: https://nodejs.org/en/download/package-manager
 
 ### Building the Code