LC_ID_DYLIB of abi3 module is wrong on macOS

[Aksem]

Bug Description

watchfiles package includes _rust_notify module compiled with PyO3 in api3 mode. It has LC_ID_DYLIB equal to @rpath/_rust_notify.cpython-310-darwin.so however its name is _rust_notify.abi3.so and the library cannot be linked properly.

I faced this problem when I tried to compile an app with nuitka in which watchfiles package is used.

Initial issue in Nuitka: Nuitka/Nuitka#1844

Steps to Reproduce

1. Compile a module in api3 mode on macOS.
2. Check it LC_ID_DYLIB with otool -l <lib.so> command.

Backtrace

No response

Your operating system and version

macOS 11

Your Python version (python --version)

3.10.7

Your Rust version (rustc --version)

1.56.0

Your PyO3 version

0.16.4

How did you install python? Did you use a virtualenv?

actions/setup-python@v4 in github actions (config)
No virtualenv, just dependency installation with pip

Additional Info

No response

[messense]

Transferred to maturin since LC_ID_DYLIB was set by maturin.