Add support for Pendulum 3.0

[aaronsteers]

Some users have requested support for Pendulum 3.0. This issue is created to track and prioritize this update.

Work Required

We will need to first update the Airbyte Python CDK, which depends on Pendulum <3.0.

Ideal implementation

If possible, we should try to support Pendulum >=2.0,<=4.0. This would prevent conflicts if PyAirbyte is installed alongside something that requires Pendulum 2.x.

[bweithers]

I have been running into this issue as well. Airbyte is failing to build the wheel for Pendulum<3.0 because that is incompatible with Python 3.12 due to Pendulum<3.0 using DistUtils which was deprecated in Python 3.12.