Provide a way to enable source level statistics for tables registered in the CLI

[isidentical]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
#1347 enabled collection of statistics by default on the ListingOptions constructor, though the tables created with CREATE EXTERNAL TABLE can't still use this feature since they are created manually.
https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/e54110fb592e03704da5f6ebd832b8fe1c51123b/datafusion/core/src/execution/context.rs#L486-L488

Describe the solution you'd like
We already have a per file extension listing option implementation for the read_ dataframe APIs (e.g. CsvReadOptions, ParquetReadOptions) and they have sane defaults (like collect_stats is false for CSV and true for Parquet). I wonder whether we can just use them here and obtain the ListingOptions directly from them.

Describe alternatives you've considered
Leaving as is, or enabling them globally (instead of refactoring that part to use ReadOptions) by just setting the flag to true.

[Dandandan]

I wonder if it ever can be enabled by default for parquet datasets.
The downside for parquet is that when using remote object storage, collecting of statistics takes quite a bit of IO, slowing down simple queries.

I guess at some point we have to switch testing with Delta Lake or Apache Iceberg I guess :)