Try replace grpcio with tonic

[waynexia]

Describe This Problem

grpcio is currently used by CeresDB as gRPC implementation. It's a rust wrapper over the cpp implementation. We have used it for a long time but there are always some issues we are facing:

• long build time Should optimize the cargo build time #151
• memory leak (from C++) https://github.com/grpc/grpc/issues?q=is%3Aissue+leak
• complicated build procedure (from both rust and C++) arm64 macOS wheel is broken horaedb-client-py#20

tonic is a native gRPC implementation with these pros.:

• Native, and safety (maybe? https://github.com/hyperium/tonic/issues?q=is%3Aissue+leak)
• More users (compare to grpcio)
• Low memory consumption (see below)

And of cause, its cons.:

• Performance (refer to https://github.com/LesnyRumcajs/grpc_bench/wiki/2022-04-23-bench-results)

  name	req/s	avg. latency	90 % in	95 % in	99 % in	avg. cpu	avg. memory
  rust_tonic_mt	64091	13.53 ms	23.42 ms	28.17 ms	37.61 ms	277.41%	18.16 MiB
  rust_grpcio	68377	12.11 ms	18.79 ms	22.81 ms	32.61 ms	259.81%	25.3 MiB

  through this table, grpcio is faster than tonic. QpS on gRPC layer loss around 7%.

Proposal

With those improvements, I think tonic is worth a try

Additional Context

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