Configure terminationGracePeriodSeconds without podSpecPatch

[tooptoop4]

See #13671 (comment)

[agilgur5]

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See #13671 (comment)

Not to mention that this description is simply insufficient. This does not give a rationale and lists a bunch of other unrelated things too. I see one relevant sentence, which itself does not explain the rationale:

i see #4940 added terminationGracePeriodSeconds but it requires podSpecPatch which will slow things down

Again, as I and other maintainers and contributors have said before, more details is always good and a lack of details is difficult to even be actionable