feat(toolkit): by default hide AWS::CDK::Metadata from "cdk diff"

[eladb]

DifferenceCollection#applyFilter can be used to delete any changes
that do not pass the predicate from the collection.

Changed DifferenceCollection#count to do a lazy calculation since now
changes is mutable.

The toolkit switch cdk diff --strict disables this behavior.

Fixes #465

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