cmd/cue: add a "relax" command

[cueckoo]

Originally opened by @mpvl in cuelang/cue#15

When converting an overlay system to use CUE, "parent" template will often hard code defaults, about which CUE will complain if any instances unify a struct overriding such defaults. As this is likely a common case, it makes sense to add refactor support for this.

The relax command can rewrite parent structs to relax constraints. It is a simple variant of anti-unification as proposed in #7.

In a typical workflow, a user would run relax and then manually verify in the vc diffs which relaxations to keep and which reveal bugs.

[myitcv]

Linking to #2231 because apparently GitHub does not create the linkage between issues and discussions.