Delayed initial streaming when consuming from more than one silo cluster

[spingee]

Hello,
On our project we wanted push values to blazor ui with memory streaming, blazor acting as outside cluster client.
There is initial delay about 30s when start consuming from stream if cluster has more than one silo.
It degrades user experience greatly so we switched to some other mechanism, we dont use orleans memory streaming anymore because of this.

I created repro repo here https://github.com/spingee/DelayedStreaming.

Run docker compose (it will run single instance of server), you will see that in client console stream consuming starts immidetly.
Stop client and scale server to more than one instance. Start client and you will see (sometime there is just one message) that there is about 30s delay before messages starts arrive.
Tested on Macbook pro and windows destop.

[HermesNew]

May be the same issue as #8722

[spingee]

Not fixed with #8728