Align errors with java?

[twuebi]

apache/iceberg#10908 added a compatibilty test suite to iceberg-java. A large number of tests is failing since error messages are string matched, we should decide if we want to align our error messages to the java implementation to make the most out of the compatibility test suite.

Possible alternatives:

1. port test suite to rust (probably blocked on missing functionality in iceberg-rust)
2. contribute a PR to iceberg java which makes the checking of error messages configurable
3. apply a patch to iceberg java before each test run