Add Code of Conduct

Summary:
In the past Facebook didn't promote including a Code of Conduct when creating new projects, and many projects skipped this important document. Let's fix it. :)

**why make this change?:**
Facebook Open Source provides a Code of Conduct statement for all
projects to follow, to promote a welcoming and safe open source community.

Exposing the COC via a separate markdown file is a standard being
promoted by Github via the Community Profile in order to meet their Open
Source Guide's recommended community standards.

As you can see, adding this file will improve [the rocksdb community profile](https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/community)
checklist and increase the visibility of our COC.

**test plan:**
Viewing it on my branch -
<img width="1008" alt="screen shot 2017-12-03 at 5 05 45 pm" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/1114467/33532198-66012a56-d84c-11e7-8fab-29ed410bd600.png">
<img width="1015" alt="screen shot 2017-12-03 at 5 05 59 pm" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/1114467/33532199-661813d8-d84c-11e7-941e-94754dd481e5.png">

**issue:**
internal task t23481323
Closes facebook#3219

Reviewed By: yiwu-arbug

Differential Revision: D6494234

Pulled By: flarnie

fbshipit-source-id: 55b59db335cc5546f3a1c968322b9281a3dc3aaf

Author: flarnie

CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md

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+# Code of Conduct
+
+Facebook has adopted a Code of Conduct that we expect project participants to adhere to. Please [read the full text](https://code.facebook.com/codeofconduct) so that you can understand what actions will and will not be tolerated.

CONTRIBUTING.md

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 # Contributing to RocksDB
 
+## Code of Conduct
+The code of conduct is described in [`CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md`](CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)
+
 ## Contributor License Agreement ("CLA")
 
 In order to accept your pull request, we need you to submit a CLA. You