[Release-1.29] - Embedded helm controller does not track owner references properly

[brandond]

Backport fix for Embedded helm controller does not track owner references properly

• Embedded helm controller does not track owner references properly #10051

[fmoral2]

Trying to replicate the issue with no success

always getting

in both versions am testing we do have the
  ownerReferences:
  - apiVersion: apps/v1
    blockOwnerDeletion: true
    controller: true
    kind: ReplicaSet
    name: mynginx-5d8b585d74
    uid: 180b0817-7926-41d1-95b8-21d13219ce2f
  resourceVersion: "881"

and no deletion jobs or orphans left behind.