add family:4 to util client in tests

Author: baileympearson

test/tools/runner/hooks/configuration.js

@@ -100,7 +100,10 @@ const skipBrokenAuthTestBeforeEachHook = function ({ skippedTests } = { skippedT
 
 const testConfigBeforeHook = async function () {
   const client = new MongoClient(loadBalanced ? SINGLE_MONGOS_LB_URI : MONGODB_URI, {
-    ...getEnvironmentalOptions()
+    ...getEnvironmentalOptions(),
+    // TODO(NODE-4884): once happy eyeballs support is added, we no longer need to set
+    // the default dns resolution order for CI
+    family: 4
   });
 
   await client.db('test').command({ ping: 1 });
@@ -179,6 +182,8 @@ function installNodeDNSWorkaroundHooks(type) {
     process.version.startsWith('v19') ||
     process.version.startsWith('v20');
 
+  console.error('configuring hooks');
+
   if (!isAffectedNodeVersion || !['before', 'beforeEach'].includes(type)) {
     return;
   }
@@ -191,7 +196,9 @@ function installNodeDNSWorkaroundHooks(type) {
       setDefaultResultOrder('verbatim');
     });
   } else if (type === 'before') {
+    console.error('hooks set');
     before(() => {
+      console.error('setting dns resolution ordering');
       setDefaultResultOrder('ipv4first');
     });
     after(() => {