build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2126

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 35s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	26m 54s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	23m 3s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	25m 11s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	57m 39s
	2h 14m 22s

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