build: silence c-ares Windows compiler warnings

Silence the following compiler warning on Windows:
`inet_addr': Use inet_pton() or InetPton() instead or define
_WINSOCK_DEPRECATED_NO_WARNINGS to disable deprecated API warnings`

PR-URL: #31311
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

deps/cares/cares.gyp

@@ -112,7 +112,10 @@
           'defines': [ 'CARES_BUILDING_LIBRARY' ]
         }],
         [ 'OS=="win"', {
-          'defines': [ 'CARES_PULL_WS2TCPIP_H=1' ],
+          'defines': [
+            'CARES_PULL_WS2TCPIP_H=1',
+            '_WINSOCK_DEPRECATED_NO_WARNINGS',
+          ],
           'include_dirs': [ 'config/win32' ],
           'sources': [
             'src/config-win32.h',