breakup unit tests & box, parcel and kinematic_2d smote tests fail on CI on Apple Silicon

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unit:

FAILED tests/unit_tests/products/test_collision_rates.py::TestCollisionProducts::test_breakup_deficits_when_adaptive[params0] - UserWarning: adaptive time-step reached dt_min
FAILED tests/unit_tests/products/test_collision_rates.py::TestCollisionProducts::test_breakup_deficits_when_adaptive[params1] - UserWarning: adaptive time-step reached dt_min

box:

FAILED tests/smoke_tests/box/srivastava_1982/test_eq_13.py::test_pysdm_coalescence_and_breakup_is_close_to_analytic_coalescence_and_breakup[merge + break-settings2] - AssertionError: 
Not equal to tolerance rtol=0.001, atol=0

Mismatched elements: 1 / 257 (0.389%)
Max absolute difference: 0.0013075
Max relative difference: 0.0013075
 x: array([0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424,
       0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424,
       0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424, 0.999424,...
 y: array(1.)
ERROR tests/smoke_tests/box/dejong_azimi/test_box.py::test_settings_a - UserWarning: adaptive time-step reached dt_min
ERROR tests/smoke_tests/box/dejong_azimi/test_box.py::test_settings_b - UserWarning: adaptive time-step reached dt_min
ERROR tests/smoke_tests/box/dejong_azimi/test_box.py::test_settings_c - UserWarning: adaptive time-step reached dt_min

parcel: timeout

kinematic 1D:

 FAILED tests/smoke_tests/kinematic_2d/arabas_et_al_2015/test_initialisation.py::test_initialisation[Numba] - AssertionError: 
Items are not equal to 5 significant digits:
 ACTUAL: 81178704.01968548
 DESIRED: 81177078.39372446