unstable TestAddIndexIngestMemoryUsage

[lance6716]

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    integration_test.go:66: 
        	Error Trace:	tests/realtikvtest/addindextest/integration_test.go:66
        	Error:      	Not equal: 
        	            	expected: 0
        	            	actual  : 176
        	Test:       	TestAddIndexIngestMemoryUsage

And I found two create one backend for an DDL job while one close one backend for DDL job

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