Make consumer_timeout configurable via TLS Parameters

[chrisjsewell]

#2990, it's fair to say, is not a universally loved change; for myself, it kind of breaks our whole program 😢.

One compromise I believe makes sense, is to allow consumer_timeout to be set by the consumer, as part of the connection URI (preferably allowing for false), since it seems reasonable the client should have a say in how long it may take to complete a task.

See: https://www.rabbitmq.com/uri-query-parameters.html#tls

Originally posted in #2990 (comment)

[chrisjsewell]

No experience with erlang; but happy to try a PR if what I suggest seems amenable 😬

[michaelklishin]

I will convert this issue to a GitHub discussion. Currently GitHub will automatically close and lock the issue even though your question will be transferred and responded to elsewhere. This is to let you know that we do not intend to ignore this but this is how the current GitHub conversion mechanism makes it seem for the users :(