listInsertHere with an empty list fails check

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Describe the bug
The check below from src/vt/vrt/collection/param/construct_params.h is too strict:

    if (not dynamic_membership_) {
      vtAssert(
        has_bounds_ or
        (not has_bounds_ and bulk_inserts_.size() == 1) or
        (not has_bounds_ and
         (list_inserts_.size() > 0 or list_insert_here_.size() > 0)),
        "Must have valid bounds or exactly one bulk insert or use list insertion"
      );
    }

It fails when a rank has called listInsertHere() with an empty list. Set a flag when listInsertHere() is called and check that instead of list_insert_here_.size() > 0 in the above code block.