feat: Add Node.js support for Debian 12

[siketyan]

This pull request adds Node.js (v18, v20) language support for Debian 12 (bookworm).
References #1398.

[loosebazooka]

I think @omBratteng is trying to handle this in #1317 ?

[siketyan]

Yes, but it looks still in progress. I think we can merge #1317 first and then catch-up for Debian 12 support in this PR.

[omBratteng]

You can just add Debian 12 support, and I'll rebase my PR to get those changes. I'm on a work trip now, so I don't have that much time to it right now.

[loosebazooka]

looks good, just need the debian 12 tests

[siketyan]

@loosebazooka
I think we already have Debian 12 tests, as iterated in nodejs/BUILD.

❯ bazel test //nodejs:nodejs18_root_arm64_debian12_test
INFO: Build option --test_env has changed, discarding analysis cache.
INFO: Analyzed target //nodejs:nodejs18_root_arm64_debian12_test (166 packages loaded, 12586 targets configured).
INFO: Found 1 test target...
Target //nodejs:nodejs18_root_arm64_debian12_test up-to-date:
  bazel-bin/nodejs/nodejs18_root_arm64_debian12_test.sh
INFO: Elapsed time: 3.538s, Critical Path: 0.81s
INFO: 1 process: 1 internal.
INFO: Build completed successfully, 1 total action
//nodejs:nodejs18_root_arm64_debian12_test                      (cached) PASSED in 5.2s

Executed 0 out of 1 test: 1 test passes.
There were tests whose specified size is too big. Use the --test_verbose_timeout_warnings command line option to see which ones these are.

[loosebazooka]

you're right my bad, the testdata files are the same for both debian versions.