Simplify asserts in dlpack tests

[antonwolfy]

Since #1016 dpctl will use a dedicated queue cache with (context, device) pair.
The cache will be available in dpctl.tensor.from_dlpack, so it will return the same queue for a given device.

Thus the PR is to update corresponding tests in dpnp and simplify the verifications asserts by a common function.

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