build: update ascend dockerfile

[CyCle1024]

Motivation

Using dlinfer instead of deeplink.framework in Dockerfile build for device=ascend

Modification

Update Dockerfile_aarch64_ascend, using pip3 install dlinfer-ascend==0.1.0 to support ascend,
torch_npu is used internally.

BC-breaking (Optional)

Does the modification introduce changes that break the backward-compatibility of the downstream repositories?
If so, please describe how it breaks the compatibility and how the downstream projects should modify their code to keep compatibility with this PR.

Use cases (Optional)

If this PR introduces a new feature, it is better to list some use cases here, and update the documentation.

Checklist

1. Pre-commit or other linting tools are used to fix the potential lint issues.
2. The modification is covered by complete unit tests. If not, please add more unit tests to ensure the correctness.
3. If the modification has a dependency on downstream projects of a newer version, this PR should be tested with all supported versions of downstream projects.
4. The documentation has been modified accordingly, like docstring or example tutorials.

[lvhan028]

I understand that src has nothing to do with ascend inference.
But user might modify code and would like to commit to github.
So please keep it as a whole package

COPY . /opt/lmdeploy

WORKDIR /opt/lmdeploy

[CyCle1024]

COPY . /opt/lmdeploy could bring all ascend *.run files into docker images (about 3.8GB extra size for CANN 8.0.RC3.alpha001), I could not find a good way to exclude the ascend files.
Actually, there is an experimental syntax for Dockerfile that excludes certain patterns link

COPY --excludes *.run . /opt/lmdeploy

It's experimental and I have not tested yet, and may have extra requirements for docker version

[CyCle1024]

I understand that src has nothing to do with ascend inference. But user might modify code and would like to commit to github. So please keep it as a whole package

COPY . /opt/lmdeploy

WORKDIR /opt/lmdeploy

I think it's ok if extra 3.8GB size for ascend image is acceptable.

[CyCle1024]

@lvhan028 using a new multi-stage build avoid copy run file into final image, please review