Allow self-dependent dynamicNode

[L3MON4D3]

Deal with/Explicitly allow dynamicNodes being updated due to a change inside of them.
This is to enable stuff like #1096 and #1102, where the text of an insertNode should be updated while typing.

One important limitation this has (for now??) is that the updates have to reach some equilibrium (text is unchanged after a second update), otherwise we just keep updating.

One example:

ls.setup_snip_env()

local opt_arg = require("luasnip.nodes.optional_arg").new_opt

ls.add_snippets("all", {
	s("test", {
		t":",
		d(1, function(args)
			if args[1] == nil then
				return sn(nil, { i(1, "fff", {key = "asd"}) })
			else
				for i, str in ipairs(args[1]) do
					args[1][i] = str:lower()
				end
				return sn(nil, { i(1, args[1], {key = "asd"}) })
			end
		end, { opt_arg(k("asd")) }),
		t":"
	})
}, {key = "qwe"})

Note the other new addition, opt_arg (optional argnodes, we currently don't run the dynamicNode-function if an argnode is missing), for allowing the initial creation of the sn when the "asd"-node does not yet exist.

This is missing tests and doc for now, and I'm not certain it handles all cases correctly, but I'd like to show this since I think it should work for simple ones.

[L3MON4D3]

A quick update: I've somwhat widened the scope of this PR, besides simply allowing self-dependent dynamicNodes, I'd like to make those more practical by addressing this usecase where a snippet that was active inside an insertNode remains active even after it was modified by the dynamicNode-function!

A preliminary example:

1730232750.mp4

This required some larger changes (and enabled some other nice things, for example a restoreNode also restoring entire snippets that were expanded inside the restoreNode), so I'm happy with any user that is open to test-running this branch in their usual setup for a while, even without using these new features :D