Parallelize wheel jobs and add ARM #1019

Job	Run time
mypy	18s
build (3.7, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	2m 42s
python_no_gil	3m 8s
build (3.7, no, ubuntu-22.04)	2m 36s
build_python_27 (ubuntu-22.04, yes)	2m 51s
test_c_linux (0, x64)	48s
build (3.8, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	2m 24s
build_python_27 (ubuntu-22.04, no)	2m 45s
test_c_linux (0, x32)	1m 1s
build (3.8, no, ubuntu-22.04)	2m 22s
build_python_27 (windows-latest, yes)	4m 6s
test_c_windows (x64)	1m 24s
build (3.9, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 41s
test_c_linux (1, x64)	49s
build (3.9, no, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 36s
build_python_27 (windows-latest, no)	4m 27s
test_c_windows (win32)	2m 31s
test_c_linux (1, x32)	1m 9s
build (3.10, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 38s
build (3.10, no, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 45s
build (3.11, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 26s
build (3.11, no, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 24s
build (3.12, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 24s
build (3.12, no, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 25s
build (3.13, yes, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 27s
build (3.13, no, ubuntu-22.04)	4m 43s
build (3.13, yes, macos-13)	4m 38s
build (3.13, no, windows-latest)	5m 0s
build (3.13, yes, windows-latest)	5m 24s
build (pypy2.7, no, ubuntu-latest)	1m 35s
build (pypy3.9, no, ubuntu-latest)	3m 54s
build (3.13, yes, ubuntu-22.04-arm)	4m 35s
	1h 45m 56s

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