Fix TooltipTrigger with DialogTrigger

[devongovett]

Closes #3009, closes #4195

This is an alternate fix to #4195. It uses native onPointerDown and onKeyDown to hide tooltips instead of usePress. This avoids the double event causing tooltips preventing dialog triggers and other press events from working. It also allows press events on elements with tooltips to propagate rather than blocking interactions which would be unexpected.

I tried to add a test but was unable to reproduce the issue in a test environment. I believe this is due to act batching the double press events together unlike how it works in the browser.

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[snowystinger]

I think @LFDanLu had some concerns with this approach from when it was suggested last time https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/pull/4195/files#r1136175022
From reading back over it, I don't follow what it was (might've been all theoretical), we just return a smaller set of event handlers now, but they are the same kinds as before. Tested it in hooks docs and new stories are working for me

[LFDanLu]

The concern from before was that the event propagation of the pointer/keyboard events would be inconsistent depending on how the user constructed their TooltipTrigger. If their button within their implemented TooltipTrigger used useButton, the pointer/keyboard events would have their event propagation automatically stopped due to usePress and useFocusable respectively. If their button within their TooltipTrigger was just a native button like it is in the useTooltipTrigger then event propagation wouldn't be stopped.

[devongovett]

I think that's expected. Tooltips on their own shouldn't stop propagation, because clicks aren't really their main purpose, just a secondary interaction that's not exposed to the app developer. If the button has usePress then they should stop propagation because the click is being handled by the app via the onPress event.

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@react-aria/tooltip

TooltipTriggerAria

 TooltipTriggerAria {
   tooltipProps: DOMAttributes
-  triggerProps: (DOMAttributes & PressProps & HoverProps & FocusEvents)
+  triggerProps: DOMAttributes
 }

it changed:

• useTooltipTrigger

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