[WIP]: fix: dependabot critical errors

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Closes
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/444
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/443
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/410
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/409
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/398
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/397
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/386
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/385

Partial resolution
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/security/dependabot/344 <- need to remove lerna to finish

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

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