net: check if option is undefined

PR-URL: nodejs#40344
Fixes: nodejs#40336
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Minwoo Jung <nodecorelab@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Zijian Liu <lxxyxzj@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>

lib/net.js

@@ -282,13 +282,13 @@ const kSetNoDelay = Symbol('kSetNoDelay');
 
 function Socket(options) {
   if (!(this instanceof Socket)) return new Socket(options);
-  if (options.objectMode) {
+  if (options?.objectMode) {
     throw new ERR_INVALID_ARG_VALUE(
       'options.objectMode',
       options.objectMode,
       'is not supported'
     );
-  } else if (options.readableObjectMode || options.writableObjectMode) {
+  } else if (options?.readableObjectMode || options?.writableObjectMode) {
     throw new ERR_INVALID_ARG_VALUE(
       `options.${
         options.readableObjectMode ? 'readableObjectMode' : 'writableObjectMode'