Build/publish binary wheels with cibuildwheel

[zbowling]

Modernize setuptools by moving config/cython config to project.toml.

Create a github action CI job that wraps cibuildwheel to generate binary wheels for multiple python versions and architectures.

Uses pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish to publish binary wheels directly to pypi.

Drops support for python 3.7 and 3.8 and because they don't build with the same modern setuptools that support 3.13 anymore.

Increment version number.

[zbowling]

@alex-petrenko Please take a look! We use your dependency at @modularml in some public projects, but some folks are hitting issues with not having a sane C++ toolchain installed on their distros and running into compile issues that are hard to help folks debug so I figured it was easier to contribute upstream a CI build job to upload binary wheels to pypi for you.

I'm did some modernizing a bit of setuptools and other minor changes (this did mean dropping support for obsolete versions of Python, specifically 3.7 and 3.8).

The cibuildwheel will build for macOS (intel and ARM) and linux (on a half dozen architectures, cross compiled in qemu manylinux base images to ensure binary portability), and it will build wheels against CPython versions 3.9 to 3.13 (I'm skipping PyPy because of bugs in setuptools).

You can see how this runs on my fork: https://github.com/zbowling/faster-fifo/actions/runs/12397980265/job/34609622247#step:3:1738

This also uses the new pypi publication system so you don't have use tokens/user+passwords to upload to pypi if you link the github to pypi.

This will automatically kick off a publication and release build when you create a release with github's release UI (https://github.com/alex-petrenko/faster-fifo/releases) but I can also switch to doing a release when you a version on the repo instead if you prefer.