Update to build curl from scratch

[alexcrichton]

It looks like it's basically not possible for MSVC to pick up nghttp2 otherwise
because that detection requires pkg-config. I'm sort of personally real tired
of dealing with build systems, so instead use the cc crate to do everything.

This commit switches builds from source to always use the cc crate and we
manually list all the relevant #define directives as well as the list of files
that we're interested in. This is likely not reproducing exactly what libcurl
requires 100%, but it's providing a lot of other benefits:

• This build strategy truly will be cross platform modulo us fixing bugs. We can
  now actually get dependency detection and such working across all platforms as
  we don't rely on external tools.
• We can now use the vanilla upstream curl submodule because there's no need
  to generate a configure script.
• The curl CLI tool is no longer built, we never needed it anyway!
• We have much more precise control about what's happening in that we can
  precisely and programmatically know what's activated in the build.

Downsides of this approach include:

• Updates of the curl submodule are likely going to be harder as we need to
  make sure all the right files are built and they're built with the right
  #defines. This is expected to be a very low cost over time compared to the
  headache dealing with cross-platform builds right now.
• We likely aren't building curl in the exact same way, for example some
  #define might be required to make curl "go fast" on newer platforms, but we
  may forget to pass it until much later. This is again, however, seen as not
  much of a problem compared to the current headache trying to build curl in a
  cross-platform manner that hooks up all the dependencies correctly.