v2.1: update quinn-proto to 0.11.9 (backport of #3643)

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Problem

Updated Quinn-proto to 0.11.9 to take advantage of some new enhancements

Summary of Changes

Updated cargo.toml to use Quinn-proto 0.11.9

Fixes #

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #3643 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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[t-nelson]

@lijunwangs do we need this?