Fix DetachedInstanceError when accessing DagRun.created_dag_version

[kaxil]

The error occurred when trying to access dag_run.created_dag_version on a DagRun object that was detached from its SQLAlchemy session.

Stacktrace:

[2025-08-08T19:03:28.761+0000] {scheduler_job_runner.py:935} ERROR - Marking task instance <TaskInstance: sell_oms_shipconfirm_mao_to_ecom_load_delta_quarterly.shipconfirm_delta_to_kafka_notebook_task scheduled__2025-08-08T07:30:00+00:00 [running]> as failed
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/airflow/jobs/scheduler_job_runner.py", line 925, in process_executor_events
    dag = scheduler_dag_bag.get_dag(dag_run=ti.dag_run, session=session)
          ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/airflow/jobs/scheduler_job_runner.py", line 141, in get_dag
    version = self._version_from_dag_run(dag_run=dag_run, session=session)
              ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/airflow/jobs/scheduler_job_runner.py", line 135, in _version_from_dag_run
    dag_version = dag_run.created_dag_version
                  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/attributes.py", line 487, in __get__
    return self.impl.get(state, dict_)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/attributes.py", line 959, in get
    value = self._fire_loader_callables(state, key, passive)
            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/attributes.py", line 995, in _fire_loader_callables
    return self.callable_(state, passive)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/strategies.py", line 863, in _load_for_state
    raise orm_exc.DetachedInstanceError(
sqlalchemy.orm.exc.DetachedInstanceError: Parent instance <DagRun at 0x7f46d309a5d0> is not bound to a Session; 
lazy load operation of attribute 'created_dag_version' cannot proceed (Background on this error at: https://sqlalche.me/e/14/bhk3)

Two-layer fix:

1. Proactive loading: Add selectinload for created_dag_version in process_executor_events query to ensure optimal performance for this critical path
2. Defensive code: Add relationship loading check in DBDagBag._version_from_dag_run to handle all call sites safely using SQLAlchemy inspect pattern

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[kaxil]

cc @karenbraganz

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[kaxil]

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