deps: upgrade to DataFusion 51.0.0 and Arrow-rs 57.0.0

[mbutrovich]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #2719.

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What changes are included in this PR?

How are these changes tested?

[mbutrovich]

Marking as draft since this is just for testing until DataFusion 51.0.0 crates are available.

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 58.30%. Comparing base (f09f8af) to head (69bd15d).
⚠️ Report is 714 commits behind head on main.

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[mbutrovich]

DF 51.0.0 crates are available, but we're currently planning to review and merge this after the Comet 0.12.0 release. Keeping this as a draft for now.