feat: add support for array_position expression

[andygrove]

Closes #3157

Summary

• Adds native Comet support for Spark's array_position function
• Returns the 1-based position of an element in an array, or 0 if not found

Implementation Details

This required a custom Rust implementation because DataFusion's array_position returns UInt64 and null when not found, while Spark returns Int64 (LongType) and 0.

Key implementation details:

• Returns Int64 to match Spark's LongType
• Returns 0 when element is not found (Spark behavior)
• Returns null when array is null or search element is null
• Supports both List and LargeList array types

Test Plan

• Added unit tests for array_position in CometArrayExpressionSuite
• Tests cover:
  • Finding elements in integer arrays
  • Finding elements in string arrays
  • Element not found (returns 0)
  • Arrays with null elements
  • Column-based queries (not just literals)
• All existing tests pass

Note: This PR was generated with AI assistance.

Closes #3153

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 76.92308% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 59.96%. Comparing base (f09f8af) to head (36c3320).
⚠️ Report is 907 commits behind head on main.

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...src/main/scala/org/apache/comet/serde/arrays.scala	75.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

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[andygrove]

Moving this to draft until #3328 is merged