[Bug](runtime-filter) avoid ignore rf multiple times

[BiteTheDDDDt]

What problem does this PR solve?

related with ##41751

avoid ignore rf multiple times

When an instance is wake_up_by_downstream, it will destroy the logic of first closing the instance that should build hash table and then closing other instances, instance that should build hash table during the process of inserting data into rf, this instance may find that rf is ignored, causing dcheck to fail.

 F20241121 12:01:02.245405 9832 runtime_filter.cpp:395] Check failed: !is_ignored()

3# raise at ../sysdeps/posix/raise.c:27
4# abort at ./stdlib/abort.c:81
5# 0x00005603CFDF778D in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
6# 0x00005603CFDE9DCA in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
7# google::LogMessage::SendToLog() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
8# google::LogMessage::Flush() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
9# google::LogMessageFatal::~LogMessageFatal() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_fixed_len(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:395
11# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:431
12# doris::IRuntimeFilter::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:992
13# doris::VRuntimeFilterSlots::insert(doris::vectorized::Block const*) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter_slots.h:146
14# doris::pipeline::HashJoinBuildSinkLocalState::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
15# doris::pipeline::DataSinkOperatorXBase::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
16# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::close(doris::Status) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:487

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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