branch-3.0: [improve](cloud-mow)Make some mow calculating delete bitmap config more reasonable #46750

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Cherry-picked from #46750

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 41000 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 59cb5e4b160eb0dc77cd28b428f0578c4548db14, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17647	7399	7197	7197
q2	2059	181	172	172
q3	10648	1057	1195	1057
q4	10504	723	753	723
q5	7754	2893	2880	2880
q6	236	148	146	146
q7	1002	614	590	590
q8	9358	2002	2057	2002
q9	6647	6447	6408	6408
q10	6979	2324	2306	2306
q11	462	262	267	262
q12	406	213	208	208
q13	17780	2996	3015	2996
q14	243	212	207	207
q15	567	527	523	523
q16	683	632	615	615
q17	995	601	583	583
q18	7143	6791	6652	6652
q19	1440	1078	1068	1068
q20	478	213	204	204
q21	4111	3282	3190	3190
q22	1108	1011	1022	1011
Total cold run time: 108250 ms
Total hot run time: 41000 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7226	7193	7266	7193
q2	343	230	230	230
q3	2965	2959	3032	2959
q4	2103	1866	1809	1809
q5	5739	5728	5755	5728
q6	228	137	143	137
q7	2233	1830	1838	1830
q8	3367	3565	3522	3522
q9	8885	8884	8896	8884
q10	3594	3543	3571	3543
q11	642	496	507	496
q12	799	620	646	620
q13	10159	3117	3185	3117
q14	290	295	289	289
q15	574	539	518	518
q16	725	703	677	677
q17	1856	1614	1585	1585
q18	8230	7844	7649	7649
q19	1669	1483	1629	1483
q20	2083	1908	1855	1855
q21	5527	5463	5420	5420
q22	1165	1059	998	998
Total cold run time: 70402 ms
Total hot run time: 60542 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 198635 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 59cb5e4b160eb0dc77cd28b428f0578c4548db14, data reload: false

query1	1320	929	915	915
query2	6231	2108	2084	2084
query3	10870	4414	4485	4414
query4	66002	29116	23768	23768
query5	5157	450	436	436
query6	402	183	174	174
query7	5642	316	318	316
query8	315	220	218	218
query9	9546	2679	2675	2675
query10	485	278	256	256
query11	17407	15453	15841	15453
query12	149	103	101	101
query13	1547	448	442	442
query14	10920	7452	7015	7015
query15	212	185	199	185
query16	7121	521	471	471
query17	1115	599	610	599
query18	1938	330	329	329
query19	228	187	167	167
query20	125	114	113	113
query21	212	114	111	111
query22	4764	4714	4459	4459
query23	34679	34478	34483	34478
query24	6104	2862	2923	2862
query25	546	455	442	442
query26	662	178	172	172
query27	1882	360	358	358
query28	4193	2500	2450	2450
query29	721	495	465	465
query30	242	170	166	166
query31	1015	843	815	815
query32	66	54	53	53
query33	398	279	285	279
query34	907	507	520	507
query35	859	723	710	710
query36	1097	962	970	962
query37	128	79	70	70
query38	4101	4015	3964	3964
query39	1606	1477	1474	1474
query40	201	102	105	102
query41	50	54	48	48
query42	117	100	99	99
query43	532	480	495	480
query44	1152	829	808	808
query45	180	171	170	170
query46	1143	746	733	733
query47	2029	1943	1957	1943
query48	481	390	388	388
query49	750	418	387	387
query50	836	421	425	421
query51	7243	7214	7134	7134
query52	101	89	90	89
query53	247	181	180	180
query54	561	471	466	466
query55	74	74	75	74
query56	249	237	244	237
query57	1203	1114	1104	1104
query58	216	222	218	218
query59	3265	3026	3148	3026
query60	285	264	256	256
query61	110	109	107	107
query62	757	693	679	679
query63	217	190	191	190
query64	1420	685	631	631
query65	3269	3178	3169	3169
query66	707	298	312	298
query67	16107	15723	15701	15701
query68	4238	586	562	562
query69	437	270	260	260
query70	1158	1164	1131	1131
query71	338	255	260	255
query72	6336	4139	4075	4075
query73	749	350	348	348
query74	9986	9056	8918	8918
query75	3303	2644	2675	2644
query76	1858	1086	1106	1086
query77	486	271	268	268
query78	10450	9524	9574	9524
query79	1454	580	588	580
query80	854	427	431	427
query81	503	244	239	239
query82	1087	115	119	115
query83	166	151	144	144
query84	290	79	77	77
query85	838	297	298	297
query86	329	309	300	300
query87	4421	4341	4266	4266
query88	3728	2438	2363	2363
query89	417	293	295	293
query90	2011	187	179	179
query91	187	168	170	168
query92	69	47	54	47
query93	1768	553	545	545
query94	776	303	291	291
query95	353	254	255	254
query96	614	290	282	282
query97	3312	3198	3168	3168
query98	211	198	206	198
query99	1601	1265	1278	1265
Total cold run time: 318744 ms
Total hot run time: 198635 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 33.14 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 59cb5e4b160eb0dc77cd28b428f0578c4548db14, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.04	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.02
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.63	0.10	0.10
query5	0.51	0.52	0.51
query6	1.14	0.73	0.73
query7	0.03	0.02	0.02
query8	0.05	0.03	0.03
query9	0.56	0.52	0.50
query10	0.55	0.55	0.56
query11	0.14	0.10	0.10
query12	0.13	0.12	0.11
query13	0.61	0.60	0.59
query14	2.91	2.94	2.97
query15	0.90	0.84	0.84
query16	0.38	0.38	0.38
query17	1.08	1.06	1.06
query18	0.24	0.22	0.22
query19	1.91	1.85	1.94
query20	0.02	0.01	0.01
query21	15.37	0.63	0.60
query22	2.36	1.91	1.92
query23	16.91	1.16	0.85
query24	3.06	0.88	1.56
query25	0.26	0.10	0.16
query26	0.46	0.15	0.13
query27	0.04	0.04	0.05
query28	10.52	1.10	1.07
query29	12.56	3.23	3.22
query30	0.25	0.06	0.05
query31	2.87	0.38	0.38
query32	3.26	0.44	0.46
query33	2.98	3.00	3.04
query34	16.90	4.50	4.53
query35	4.57	4.60	4.52
query36	0.68	0.49	0.51
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.04	0.03	0.04
query39	0.03	0.02	0.03
query40	0.15	0.13	0.13
query41	0.08	0.03	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 106.62 s
Total hot run time: 33.14 s