[enhancement](cloud) support param to drop fe cluster not in safe time

[xy720]

What problem does this PR solve?

related pr: #45255

Currently, when the MS drop node/drop cluster api is called to the drop sql node/sql cluster, there is a 5 minute safe drop protection mechanism, but it is not necessary when destroying a newly created doris instance.

1. Allow bypassing the safe-time-check when calling the drop cluster api of meta service by setting the safe_derop_on_sql_cluster param to false

2. Add a configuration for the safe-time-check (default 5 minutes) to adjust this value

Api call example:
curl -X POST -H "Content-Type: text/plain" -d '{"instance_id": "123333", "cluster": {"cluster_name": "RESERVED_CLUSTER_NAME_FOR_SQL_SERVER", "cluster_id": "RESERVED_CLUSTER_ID_FOR_SQL_SERVER"}, "safe_drop_on_sql_cluster": "false"}' http://127.0.0.1:5000/MetaService/http/drop_cluster?token=xxxxxxxx

reopen #50535

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Region Coverage: 65.68% (9221/14039)
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TPC-H: Total hot run time: 34056 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
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Tpch sf100 test result on commit 98259ef1b4a54a130ab371661907ff5d6ac8e876, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
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q10	6864	2302	1873	1873
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q14	233	232	204	204
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q17	599	878	356	356
q18	7602	7414	7228	7228
q19	1732	956	558	558
q20	337	354	221	221
q21	3854	3431	2546	2546
q22	1057	985	939	939
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----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
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q7	2043	1940	1790	1790
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q10	3022	3195	2733	2733
q11	591	498	482	482
q12	659	770	596	596
q13	3570	3910	3347	3347
q14	297	292	283	283
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q16	458	483	449	449
q17	1191	1568	1406	1406
q18	7819	7497	7371	7371
q19	820	950	1070	950
q20	1959	1939	1837	1837
q21	5080	4750	4598	4598
q22	1097	1072	1021	1021
Total cold run time: 52517 ms
Total hot run time: 50571 ms

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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192751 ms

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TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 98259ef1b4a54a130ab371661907ff5d6ac8e876, data reload: false

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query23	34138	33435	33594	33435
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query25	470	462	430	430
query26	630	276	176	176
query27	2158	519	326	326
query28	3047	2115	2109	2109
query29	581	564	425	425
query30	263	217	186	186
query31	855	871	796	796
query32	73	60	62	60
query33	441	369	313	313
query34	794	863	526	526
query35	770	817	760	760
query36	920	1019	898	898
query37	151	100	77	77
query38	4127	4343	4180	4180
query39	1538	1408	1443	1408
query40	204	123	105	105
query41	55	51	55	51
query42	118	110	104	104
query43	499	501	481	481
query44	1303	804	818	804
query45	188	180	169	169
query46	844	1017	637	637
query47	1903	1881	1776	1776
query48	381	417	304	304
query49	694	517	418	418
query50	654	713	408	408
query51	4214	4232	4138	4138
query52	115	107	98	98
query53	236	268	187	187
query54	610	589	521	521
query55	80	82	85	82
query56	303	317	313	313
query57	1149	1186	1117	1117
query58	259	256	254	254
query59	2650	2802	2659	2659
query60	348	316	317	316
query61	143	130	119	119
query62	735	792	691	691
query63	233	183	192	183
query64	1416	1033	757	757
query65	4419	4295	4252	4252
query66	728	407	311	311
query67	15756	15486	15375	15375
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query69	501	297	267	267
query70	1215	1127	1083	1083
query71	438	310	286	286
query72	5973	4882	4976	4882
query73	734	693	347	347
query74	8925	9021	8921	8921
query75	3402	3270	2697	2697
query76	2896	1201	748	748
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query78	9931	10139	9271	9271
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query80	771	525	453	453
query81	518	247	221	221
query82	392	127	96	96
query83	259	239	231	231
query84	296	102	96	96
query85	732	346	304	304
query86	326	298	295	295
query87	4419	4427	4422	4422
query88	2802	2192	2208	2192
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query90	1735	212	218	212
query91	155	157	125	125
query92	67	62	57	57
query93	1439	945	573	573
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query97	3153	3195	3131	3131
query98	223	212	203	203
query99	1337	1390	1276	1276
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ClickBench: Total hot run time: 29.52 s

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ClickBench test result on commit 98259ef1b4a54a130ab371661907ff5d6ac8e876, data reload: false

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query26	0.56	0.23	0.18
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query30	0.29	0.08	0.07
query31	2.82	0.65	0.42
query32	3.23	0.59	0.50
query33	3.11	3.02	3.12
query34	16.76	5.12	4.38
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query36	0.62	0.53	0.50
query37	0.19	0.18	0.16
query38	0.18	0.16	0.15
query39	0.05	0.04	0.05
query40	0.20	0.15	0.15
query41	0.10	0.06	0.05
query42	0.06	0.04	0.06
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Total hot run time: 29.52 s

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[deardeng]

@xy720 这个pr怎么没推进合入啊？

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