Fix : zk problem

[pantianying]

What this PR does:
1.exit listen when zk.errNilNode happen
2.Ftr the lock of ZookeeperClient
Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #

Special notes for your reviewer:

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?:

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Codecov Report

Merging #346 into develop will decrease coverage by 0.04%.
The diff coverage is 68.42%.

@@             Coverage Diff             @@
##           develop     #346      +/-   ##
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- Coverage    66.88%   66.83%   -0.05%     
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  Files          123      123              
  Lines         7597     7628      +31     
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+ Hits          5081     5098      +17     
- Misses        2024     2036      +12     
- Partials       492      494       +2

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
remoting/zookeeper/listener.go	52.02% <0%> (-1.24%)	⬇️
remoting/zookeeper/client.go	68.06% <76.47%> (+0.14%)	⬆️
protocol/dubbo/dubbo_invoker.go	89.36% <0%> (-2.95%)	⬇️
protocol/dubbo/pool.go	80% <0%> (-2.33%)	⬇️
protocol/dubbo/listener.go	63.24% <0%> (+1.66%)	⬆️

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[zouyx]

LGTM

[flycash]

LGTM