Replace paimon-flink dependency with fluss-lake-format-paimon dependency

### Search before asking

- [x] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/alibaba/fluss/issues) and found nothing similar.


### Description

Replace direct paimon-flink dependency with fluss-lake-format-paimon dependency

### Willingness to contribute

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!