Migrate MysqlDebezium payload to merge mode

[hudi-bot]

Jira aims to migrate mysqlDebezium payload to the event time based merge mode and update ordering field in table properties with upgrade/downgrade.

JIRA info

• Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-9691
• Type: Improvement
• Fix version(s):
  • 1.1.0

[yihua]

Closed by #13727