[INLONG-10464][SDK] InlongSDK support retry sending when failed

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Fixes #10464

Motivation

When InlongSDK fails to send data to DataProxy, it returns the failure to the user directly. Add the capability to retry sending.

• Support choose another MessageSender to resend data when the send fails
• Able to configure max retry times
• Check failures and only retry those retriable, discard those not.

Modifications

1. add sendSuccess variable marks sending status last time
2. add methods retryWhenSendMessageFail retryWhenSendMessageIndexFail to send message, send message by itself first, if fail ,choose another node to retry, and ensure the node is retriable, discard those not
3. add getRandomSuccessSender to choose retriable MessageSender in CACHE_SENDER

Verifying this change

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  • Extended integration test for recovery after broker failure

Documentation

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