[Subtask] Change default Spark version to 3.3

[pan3793]

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Describe the subtask

Change default Spark version to 3.3

Parent issue

#2608

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[goldwater2019]

Can i submit this PR? And I wandering for how to be a commiter

[pan3793]

Of course, PR is welcome.

And I wandering for how to be a commiter

Please refer Become A Committer of Apache Kyuubi