[C++] Fixed the setting method of linker option. (#8554)

### Motivation

I don't think the following `--exclude-libs,ALL` are reflected in linker.
 [https://github.com/apache/pulsar/blob/f8080f4eb690d751f1b07ca54c23e1cd7774473f/pulsar-client-cpp/CMakeLists.txt#L214](https://github.com/apache/pulsar/blob/f8080f4eb690d751f1b07ca54c23e1cd7774473f/pulsar-client-cpp/CMakeLists.txt#L214)

I think `--exclude-libs,ALL` needs to be set in `add_link_options`.
 [add_link_options](https://cmake.org/cmake/help/latest/command/add_link_options.html)

`add_link_options` can be used from v3.13.
Therefore, fixed(reverted) `add_compile_options` to `set`.([#4071](apache/pulsar#4071))

CMakeLists.txt

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ SET(CMAKE_SHARED_LIBRARY_PREFIX )
 SET(CMAKE_SHARED_LIBRARY_SUFFIX .so)
 
 
-if (CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS_PYTHON)
+if (NOT APPLE AND NOT MSVC)
     SET(CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS "${CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS_PYTHON}")
 endif()