[ISSUE #8599] Fix send fail without retry when get GO_AWAY twice

[qianye1001]

Which Issue(s) This PR Fixes

Fixes #8599

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 66.66667% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 47.20%. Comparing base (4c51706) to head (db4e586).
Report is 3 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...rocketmq/remoting/netty/NettyRemotingAbstract.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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- Coverage      47.27%   47.20%   -0.07%     
+ Complexity     11488    11469      -19     
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  Files           1277     1277              
  Lines          89425    89432       +7     
  Branches       11502    11502              
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- Hits           42272    42214      -58     
- Misses         41948    42007      +59     
- Partials        5205     5211       +6     

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[lizhanhui]

Rebase to apply commit 1a15729, which limits rate of appending DLedger commit log.

[qianye1001]

@lizhanhui , macos still fail